You’ve been chasing after her but the more you do, the less she reacts. Now. her behavior has left you feeling unloved and unappreciated. Which begs the question, will she miss me if I leave her alone?
Yes, she will miss you if you leave her alone provided that she actually cares about you and shares a bond with you. Without chemistry, attachment and attraction, no amount of silence will make her miss you
Understandably, this is hard to accept. Nobody wants to feel like they’re not good enough for someone.
But, that’s not the way to look at rejection. Sometimes, no matter how attractive or amazing you are, you still may end up getting rejected or dumped.
I remember a time when I met this great girl who ticked most of my boxes but at the time, I was foolishly hung up on my ex.
No matter how great she was or could be, until I was able to let go of the past and stop rebounding, I just couldn’t feel strongly about her.
But when she left my life and some time passed, I really started to miss her. By the time I wanted to be with her, she was turned off and no amount of pursuing her helped.
Women go through the same thing. And in this article, we’ll discuss some of the reasons why she will miss you if you leave her alone.
But, before we get into that, let’s talk about some of the reasons why she rejected or dumped you. Eliminating these mistakes can have a profound effect on her level of attraction so it’s imperative that you familiarize yourself with this.
1. You chased her too much
Chasing a girl is a surefire way of turning her off and chasing her into the arms of another man.
This is especially the case when she has very low interest in you. Blowing up her phone with texts all the time and calling her when she’s busy at work devalues your presence.
People tend to value that which is scarce.
When you reward someone with all your attention and affection without them even wanting it, you sell yourself short and devalue your worth.
Only a man who doesn’t respect himself would chase after someone who shows little to no interest. If you can’t respect yourself, how can you expect anyone else to respect you?
And one thing is for certain, a woman who doesn’t respect you will never fall in love with you.
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2. You were needy, clingy and desperate
If you ask a woman what she finds attractive in a man, she’ll usually state the following:
- Sense of humor
Most of these traits are only present in men who work hard and strive to accomplish their goals in life.
If this is you, then it’s highly likely that you don’t have endless hours to chase after a woman.
You’re far too busy to be needy or clingy.
Additionally, confidence is something that doesn’t associate itself with desperation.
Being clingy and needy are often signs of desperation. Women don’t find this attractive. The more you seek out her validation, the less you’ll get it.
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3. You were too much of a nice guy
Nice guys don’t demand any respect and are constantly sacrificing their needs, morals and code for the validation of women.
If you were too much of a nice guy, chances are such that you either accepted the friendzone, agreed with everything she said and did even at your own expenses and allowed disrespectful behavior to slide.
Not only will she rarely miss you or care about you, but she’ll also barely have any respect for you.
Stand up for what you believe in because that is a sign of power and inner strength.
Leaving her alone will create a desire
The most effective way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours. I struggled to accept this idea for most of my teen years and that resulted in far too many rejections than needed.
When you finally stop rewarding people with your attention when they don’t deserve it, things begin to change.
Those who actually cared about you and found you attractive will start to miss your presence in their life.
Those who didn’t value you at all will let you walk away.
And I’ve come to realize how valuable this is. Your time on this planet is limited. To be wasting it on people who don’t care about you is a fruitless and pointless use of your precious time.
Let them walk away and invest yourself in those who want to be in your life and appreciate your effort.
Be that as it may, walking away also has the ability to undo the damage of chasing a woman or turning her off.
So long as she still has a base level of attraction for you, leaving her alone will make her miss you.
Rather than fixate on the things that turned her off, she’ll think about your good qualities and traits.
Another benefit of leaving her alone is that it’s unpredictable.
When men get in the habit of chasing women, they become predictable. You can easily guess when they will call or message. And their affection will be easily noticed.
By walking away or leaving her alone, it throws her a curveball. She may have pegged you for a weak guy who is desperate for her approval and affection but your actions now reflect that of a powerful and strong man.
She’ll begin to reconsider her opinion of you and this could greatly benefit your appearance in her eyes.
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Will she miss me if I leave her alone? Yes, she definitely will miss you if she still has some level of attraction and connection to you.
More so than that, leaving her alone will give you space and time to deal with your emotions.
Most men have a serious problem with emotional control when they face rejection. I was one of those men.
But, ever since I made an active and conscious decision to maintain my dignity and not chase women, my level of self-control has drastically improved.
Never have I regretted not chasing a girl.
And in some really important occasions, leaving them alone brought them right back to me.
With that being said, I hope you enjoyed this article on why leaving her alone will make her miss you. Feel free to drop your thoughts or questions in the comment section below.
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