If you knew what to say to a girl who rejected you, there’d be a great chance that you could change her mind or her opinion of you. What I’m about to share with you is the best response to rejection.
The only thing you need to say to a girl who rejected you is that it’s okay, and if she changes her mind, she should get in contact with you to hang out. Never resort to insults or childish remarks toward a woman who isn’t interested in you. All it does is validate her decision to reject you.
It’s as simple as that.
You don’t have to reply with something witty, nor do you have to pretend like it doesn’t matter to you.
One of the greatest skills a man can acquire is the skill of accepting rejection.
Those who accomplish great things in life face rejection regularly. Those who live a life of silent depression and mediocrity avoid rejection like the plague.
It’s sad because the fear of rejection can strike any of us.
But true growth and profound results come from the aspiration to acquire something great.
Stepping out of our comfort zone and approaching someone spectacular improves our chances of connecting with them infinitely more than if we allowed fear to stop us from taking any action.
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Why You Shouldn’t React Poorly To Rejection
The beautiful thing about rejection is that it doesn’t have to be a permanent or fixed result.
When dealing with other people, we must resign ourselves to the possibility that they can and may change their minds.
We don’t have to make them change their minds through action.
Rather, we have to accept their decision with such grace and detachment that they have an opportunity to experience our security, confidence, and value.
Those three attributes or characteristics are incredibly attractive to people.
There have been times in my life when I turned rejection into a relationship by simply taking it on the chin.
I was not insincere, nor did I act incongruent with my own feelings.
Instead, I exercised emotional self control and reaffirmed my desire in a non-pushy manner before walking away.
“Ah, that’s a bummer, but no worries. You have a wonderful evening.“
I’ve used that exact response to rejection only to be contacted by the same women hours later or days later.
They would be subtle about it, and I would go on talking and charming them as if they never rejected me.
If they didn’t contact me, I’d simply let go of the interaction and move on to someone else.
That’s all it takes.
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How To Deal With Rejection From A Girl
I wouldn’t spend too much time analyzing the rejection, except for my approach. And yet, I know that a lot of people start to grapple with their insecurities at the sight of rejection.
Even though it feels personal and your mind will try to associate rejection with affirmation of your deepest insecurities, you have to forcefully reject that notion and assume that it’s just part of life because it really is!
That person could have rejected you because they have a partner, they’re dating other people, they’re not interested, they’re looking for something else, or they just weren’t in a good mood that day.
Sure, they may not have found you attractive or interesting at that time, but who cares?
People have preferences. It doesn’t mean that you aren’t attractive or that there’s something severely wrong with you.
If there is something wrong, then you should use the fuel and lessons from rejection to introspect and develop into the best possible version of yourself.
Whatever that may be, let it be authentic and the best of who you are.
There’s no reason to pursue ideals and expectations that don’t align with who you are.
Believe me, you don’t have to be the handsomest, richest, or fittest man in the room to be attractive to someone.
But, in the same vein, you should aspire to be someone you are proud of.
That’s something every man should internalize.
Pride is nasty when it is unearned and channeled into arrogance.
But, to make an effort towards good things, to be of service to others, to appear as best as you can, and to be a good person are good reasons to be proud.
That kind of “pride” results in men who have good character.
Let me tell you something, in the world that we live in, it is becoming harder for both men and women to find people with good character.
People can slap on a filter or make bold claims online to feed their egos and garner praise.
So, they don’t put in the work required to become someone of true value, good character, and irresistible essence.
Given that you are also competing with men all over the world online, the way to differentiate yourself from them is to learn how to accept rejection and how to remain authentic.
The easy way to validate is to affirm and throw up women all day long. That results in nothing more than the friend zone. Most of these guys become nothing more than orbiters to feed the egos of women online.
They’re so afraid of rejection that they are willing to dish out free and insincere compliments and attention all day long.
Don’t be that guy.
Be the guy who knows what to say to a girl who rejected you.
And that is to simply walk away without wasting your time in the feverish pursuit of approval. It’s also to walk away without turning into a teenage boy who needs to be bitter and catty to women.
Don’t accept friendship if that isn’t what you truly want.
At the same time, there’s no need to be abrasive when turning down an offer for friendship.
Politely explain that you were interested in something more romantic and that you wouldn’t want to insincerely agree to friendship, but you think she’s fantastic and appreciate the offer.
As long as you can leave in a polite, respectful, and kind manner, she’ll have a much better opinion of you than if you were to regurgitate some line about not wanting to be platonic.
More than just words, it’s your delivery and approach that make the biggest difference with women.
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I’ve come to realize that as you gain a greater understanding of women and attraction, the right thing to say or do will come more naturally to you, regardless of the situation you find yourself in.
If there’s one thing you take away from this article, let it be this – act with dignity.
I’ve challenged myself to gain emotional self control. What this means is that I can’t control what I feel, but I can control how I respond to those feelings.
Even if I’m mad, hurt, or bitter, I’ll choose to act in a manner that is more congruent with the type of man I aspire to be.
And if you can do the same, I promise you, rejection and failure will never break you. If anything, it will make you stronger.
Would you agree that women are attracted to strong men?
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