Skip to content

What Does Double Text Mean? (Why You Shouldn’t Double Text)

  • by
double texting, double text, what is a double text

Texting etiquette has become a topic of great importance in the time that we live in. Texting too much or too little can often turn into a problem that ruins potential relationships and friendships. Be that as it may, there’s something called a double text that is popularly referenced and discussed. In this article, we’ll be answering the following question, What does double text mean?

A double text is defined as the result or product of sending a second text to someone after the first text was ignored or not replied to by the receiver within a certain period of time. 

Typically, people who use instant messaging or social media apps predominantly send doubt texts to people they communicate with.

Depending on the nature of the conversation, double texts may or may not be necessary.

Furthermore, sending a double text may either be advantageous or disadvantageous depending on the nature, timing and intent behind it. 

For the sake of relevance, I’m going to discuss double texting within the context of romantic relationships and dating.

Related post: The art of double texting without looking desperate

When Do People Double Text?

double text, when do people double text, when to double text

When speaking of double texting, it must be noted that two texts sent one after the other with very little to no time apart from each other is normal. 

In fact, it may be construed as a singular texting exchange because it occurred at one point. 

If what you want to say or ask is better separated into two texts, then it’s perfectly normal to do so.

Alternatively, you may have a texting style that separates any statements from questions. 

However, we use the term double texting popularly to describe a situation when one text is followed by another after some time has passed and no reply was received. 

It becomes an act used to gain the attention of the other party by taking another shot at them through a double text. 

Now, this leaves two texts that need to be addressed. 

Here’s an example of what a double text looks like:

John Doe: I had a great time with you at breakfast. I hope the rest of your day goes amazingly. (Sent 10:30 am) 

John Doe: Hey Jane, it’s me again, just thought I’d reach out because I was thinking about you. What’s up? How’s your afternoon going? (Sent 15:30pm)

As you can see, the only thing separating the two texts is time instead of a reply from the other party. 

Related post: What to do when someone ignores your text

Is It Bad To Double Text?

is it bad to double text, double texting is bad

The jury is still undecided on whether double texting is bad.

Some people argue that it’s a sign of interest and that can be viewed as attractive.

Others argue that it comes across as desperate and too revealing of one’s high-interest level.

I would say that it depends on a situation by situation basis.

When the need for double texting is present, such as in the instance of ensuring someone is okay, confirming information that is important, clearing up any miscommunication or providing further clarification, it’s helpful and even advantageous. 

But, let’s be honest, when we’re talking about romantic relationships or situations, most people double text from a desire.

I think we’ve all been in this situation at some point or the other. 

We had a high interest in someone and the desire to communicate and be with them was all too alluring.

Not hearing back from them for a day or two or even a few hours seems like too much for us to handle.

Patience gets thrown out of the window and we double text hoping to get some attention and validation from them that they still like us or miss us. 

If this happens on occasion, there’s really nothing wrong with it. In fact, I’d go so far as to say it’s sweet if you’re being authentic. 

However, when this becomes a habit and you find that your conversations are laden with double texts from you, it can actually prove to be disadvantageous. 

Instead of building interest and attraction, it can have the opposite effect. 

Double texting could ruin interest and attraction by making the sender appear to be too desperate, clingy or needy. 

It places you in a weaker position and disrupts the balance of effort between the two of you. 

Then, we must consider the content of both texts. 

What you say is just as important as how and when you say it.

I’ve seen many people use double texting as a means of throwing up every single feeling of love and worry they have onto someone they just started to date.

This may not be viewed attractively at all because the person on the receiving end may feel overwhelmed or turned off by the constant barrage of texts declaring feelings. 

I’ve learned that attraction grows in person and in absence.

There has to be a break in communication to allow positive feelings of attraction and desire to grow and rise.

When you allow someone to miss you, it can have a profound effect on their desire to talk to you and be with you.

They may end up texting you a lot more than they are now.

In fact, they may end up double texting you or initiating a conversation with you because of it.

If you’re going to double text for no reason other than to keep the conversation going, at least be mindful of what you text and try your best not to appear desperate for attention.

Related post: How long should I wait to text him back after he ignored me?

In Conclusion

Double texts seem like such an inconsequential and insignificant thing but when accumulated over time, they can actually make an impact in your relationships and friendships.

It’s important to learn when double texting is beneficial and when it’s problematic in your conversations.

From the perspective of building attraction and desire, double texts are a commodity that should be spared thoughtfully instead of frequently.

Context and situations should always be considered.

Additionally, measuring a person’s reaction to these texts in an honest and objective manner will help you to find a balance that works for you instead of against you.

With that being said, I hope you found this article on what is double texting to be insightful and helpful. If you would like to share your thoughts or questions, please do so by visiting the comment section below and let me know.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.