Would you believe me if I told you that by the time a woman expresses unhappiness in her relationship, she’s already falling out of love? It’s the truth. Most women will stick around long after they’ve lost all desire to be with you. And so, in this article, I’m going to share the signs she doesn’t love you anymore.
I believe that prevention is better than cure.
So, instead of waiting until she exits your life, you can identify these signs early on and make the necessary changes needed to salvage the relationship and re-attract her.
Let’s take a quick look at the list of signs she doesn’t love you anymore.
- She no longer texts you.
- She has nothing good to say about you.
- She is completely indifferent towards you.
- She’s dating other people.
- She moved on with her life.
- She’s in a committed relationship with someone else.
- She doesn’t want to be intimate with you anymore.
- She doesn’t vocalize her feelings for you anymore.
- She doesn’t show gratitude for your efforts.
- She no longer compliments you.
- She is not interested in the relationship.
- She barely makes an effort to be romantic.
- She doesn’t make an effort to see you much.
- She disagrees or bickers with you often.
- She vocalizes her doubts about the relationship
Okay, now let’s discuss how each of these signs appear in real life situations so that you can identify them with ease.
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1. She no longer texts you
When a woman seizes to text you altogether, it’s one of the top signs she doesn’t love you anymore.
The average person checks their phone 58 times per day and spends approximately 3 hours and 15 minutes on their phone per day. (source)
Are you telling me that a girl who supposedly loves you can’t find a minute to reply to your texts?
I don’t think so.
Sure, there are instances when people are swamped with work or problems who avoid texting until they deal with a crisis.
But if days or weeks have gone by and she hasn’t replied to your texts or reached out, it’s a bad sign.
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2. She has nothing good to say about you
When we love someone, even if they hurt us, we struggle to speak poorly of them.
Even if we are upset with them, those words we express are often closely tied to passion and love.
However, when a woman seems chronically annoyed with you, she insults you, never speaks fondly of you to others and comes across as if she doesn’t care about you anymore, it’s because she actually doesn’t.
It’s hard to reconcile the idea that someone who once loved you can now hate you or not care about you to the point of speaking poorly about you.
But, it’s a reality of life, especially if you subjected her to behavior that is toxic and bad.
3. She is completely indifferent towards you
Do you know what’s worse than a woman who is mad at you?
A woman who doesn’t care about you anymore.
By not caring, she has absolutely no investment in you at all.
You’re no longer a factor in her life no matter what you say or do, she doesn’t really assign much value to it.
As such, she doesn’t bother responding to you but if she does, you can sense the lack of emotional investment in her replies.
If you’re experiencing a situation like this then I’m sad to inform you that this is one of the top signs she doesn’t love you anymore.
4. She’s dating other people
Fresh off a breakup, dating other people may be a sign that she’s rebounding and trying to get over you.
But, if it has been some time since the breakup and she’s now finally stepping into the dating scene, the likelihood that she doesn’t love you anymore increases drastically.
Well, people who understand how to deal with a breakup healthily will spend a significant amount of time alone to process the end of a relationship.
They understand that dating other people will not help them to just automatically stop loving you.
And so, she will spend time processing those feelings and letting go of her love until she feels a desire to find love again with someone else.
At that point, she may start dating other people. This would then become one of the main signs she doesn’t love you anymore.
5. She moved on with her life
In extension to the point above, women who spend a significant amount of time alone after a breakup and initiate no contact are setting themselves up for a clean break.
The longer they stick with no contact, the easier it becomes for them to sever the ties that connect her to you.
As those ties are cut, so are her feelings for you.
She’ll be forced to embrace the drastic change initiated in her life at the end of your relationship.
By the time she establishes a new norm for herself, she’d have made enough memories and put so much distance between the two of you that she has moved on with her life.
If you ever manage to get a hold of her, you might find that she even tells you that she has moved on with her life.
At that point, you have to accept that she’s being honest and that she doesn’t love you anymore.
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6. She’s in a committed relationship with someone else
I believe that you can’t be in love with two people at the same time.
So, if she happens to be in a serious relationship that doesn’t immediately follow your breakup with her, there’s a strong chance that she has fallen in love with her new partner.
Being in love with someone else automatically means that she doesn’t love you anymore.
If she did, she wouldn’t be in a serious and long lasting relationship with someone else.
Again, I just want to emphasize that this excludes an explicitly rebound relationship.
7. She doesn’t want to be intimate with you anymore
If you’re in a serious relationship like marriage and the intimacy has completely ceased for an indefinite period of time for no reason other than a collapse of your relationship, it’s a strong sign she doesn’t love you anymore.
All forms of intimacy are crucial for the survival of a healthy and loving relationship.
That’s not to say that she can’t fall in love with you again but that depends on whether there’s any desire for her to do so and if the relationship can be saved with effort and loads of communication.
If there’s one thing I know for sure – love is a prerequisite for intimacy in a serious relationship.
8. She doesn’t vocalize her feelings for you anymore
If there’s one thing I know about the majority of women, they are better communicators and understand the importance of expressing their feelings in comparison to men.
However, when she starts pulling away and those declarations of love start to dwindle until they completely disappear, something is wrong.
Understandably, being together for an extended period of time, especially many years, can result in a couple slowing down in the vocalization of love.
But, as soon as one partner does so, the other will and should reciprocate.
If your declarations of love are not being returned nor does she say anything of her own accord, it’s a sign she doesn’t love you anymore.
9. She doesn’t show gratitude for your efforts
Romantic and thoughtful gestures are only truly appreciated when they are valued.
To be valued, some degree of investment and love must be involved between two people.
Without love, all the effort you make will be wasted on someone who just doesn’t notice or care enough to even be grateful.
Unfortunately, when a woman falls out of love, the things you do will no longer hold the same value to her.
And as such, her level of appreciation will greatly reduce until it feels like she doesn’t care at all.
Well, because she literally doesn’t care anymore.
10. She no longer compliments you
A lack of compliments and flattery tend to be an early sign of her not loving you anymore.
She’s losing interest and her level of attraction is diminishing which is why she doesn’t feel any desire to compliment you.
Compliments from women who love you stem from the heart.
When those feelings diminish, her well of compliments dry up.
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11. She is not interested in the relationship
For a relationship to thrive, it must be nurtured.
Without a daily effort to be kind, caring and connected to each other, your relationship will experience many uphill battles.
Couples tend to fight more, appear resentful and feel disconnected when one or both parties fail to show an interest in nurturing the bond.
What you may notice is a general sense of disinterest from your girlfriend towards the relationship.
- Her texts are unenthusiastic.
- She doesn’t initiate many or any calls.
- She doesn’t dress up or try to look good for you.
- Her affection is limited and she stops communicating with you on a meaningful level.
- She’s distant and withdrawn.
All of this behavior is in keeping with someone who has lost interest in the relationship. The cause could very well be that she doesn’t love you anymore.
12. She barely makes an effort to be romantic
While we’re on the topic of effort, romance is essential for a couple to be happy. I’m not talking about over-the-top declarations of love.
I’m referring to those small intimate moments that make you feel as if you and her are the only people in the world.
Clinging to you, caressing your face, expressing her love, little notes and more. These romantic gestures count.
And when she stops making an effort to be romantic, it can be a big cause for concern and another one of the signs she doesn’t love you anymore.
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13. She doesn’t make an effort to see you much
You cannot develop a strong and long-lasting relationship without spending time together. Even in a long-distance relationship, without spending time with each other, your relationship is doomed.
Love has to be fed regularly.
Too much distance and a lack of communication have been known to contributors to why people fall out of love.
One of the signs someone doesn’t love you anymore is their lack of effort to see you.
What you’ll notice is that she’s always too busy, makes excuses for why she can’t be with you, is non-commital to future dates and barely brings up seeing you.
14. She disagrees or bickers with you often
When a woman starts to bicker and fight with you all the time and for what appears to be silly reasons, it’s a sign that she doesn’t love you anymore or is falling out of love with you.
Those small and unnecessary arguments tend to always be a symptom of a larger problem.
Coupled with some of the other signs above, it becomes more apparent that she doesn’t feel the way she once did.
15. She vocalizes her doubts about the relationship
Life is unpredictable and there can be times when a couple may have doubts about the future of their relationship.
However, most people keep those doubts to themselves because they feel like there’s ample time to repair the problems in their relationship.
By the time a woman voices her doubts, she has already reached a point of losing interest, attraction and possibly love for her partner.
So for this reason, the verbalization about doubts in respect to how she feels about you, in particular, can be viewed as one of the signs she doesn’t love you anymore.
I just want to say that if you are going through something like this, I really sympathize with you. There’s a general sense of unease and anxiety that can drive you over the edge at times. But, you need to stay strong and composed.
When dealing with a woman who exhibits signs she doesn’t love you anymore, it’s best to avoid drama and blow ups.
This just validates her lack of feelings or desire to leave altogether.
Instead, I would advise you to handle the situation with respect and dignity.
Try to have a good conversation with her about the relationship. Make an effort to behave the best you ever have.
If at the end of a few weeks, nothing changes and you’ve given everything you possibly could to save the relationship, you’ll be able to walk away without regrets.
Also, don’t sell yourself short.
You deserve someone who will love and adore you.
With that being said, I hope this article on the signs she doesn’t love you anymore was insightful and helpful.
I’d strongly advise you to check out my book ‘The Attraction Game – How To Get The Girl Of Your Dreams’. It has chapters that are entirely dedicated to making a woman fall in love with you again as well as ways to get an ex back.