I’m going to make a bold statement and claim that most men don’t have a good idea of what it takes to be a good partner. Part of that can be attributed to a lack of insight into the signs she doesn’t care about you.
If you could wholly and completely internalize the signs she doesn’t care about you as well as the typical signs she cares, you would be able to develop yourself into a more sought after bachelor and a better partner.
The reason why you want to familiarize yourself with these signs is that they can save you from wasting your time, energy, affection and money on someone who doesn’t care about you anymore.
Instead, you can channel all of that into the woman who actually does want you.
Signs she doesn’t care about you
The following signs she doesn’t care about you are the most commonly occurring in most failed relationships and pursuits. I would implore you to exercise rationality and objectivity in your relationship. This will allow you to identify which of these signs apply to your situation.
1. She doesn’t spend any time with you
A girl who likes or loves you will do everything in her power to be closer to you. If what you find is that she barely tries to see you, then it’s a good indicator of what her attraction level is at.
If all you’ve done is chase after a girl to no avail, it may be time to readjust your approach or walk away.
2. She doesn’t reply to your texts or returns your calls
I don’t care how busy someone could be, if they truly care about you, they’ll find 2 minutes in their day to reply. It isn’t that difficult, especially in this day and age.
Think about this – how often are you on your phone?
Even on your busiest day, count the times you are on your phone. I’m willing to bet it’s more times than most people would like to admit.
So, if she goes days without replying to a text or call, make a mental note of that because it’s a typical sign she doesn’t care about you enough.
3. She talks about liking other guys
Unless she’s doing it to make you jealous, girls wouldn’t rub it in your face that they like or are seeing other guys.
If anything, the more she cares about you, the less interested she will be in other guys. Don’t allow yourself to compete for her attention with other guys. If you are the prize, it’s time to act like it.
4. You get stood up often
In these cases, I don’t think that she doesn’t care about you at all but one thing is for certain, you aren’t a priority.
When I look back at my dating life, it feels so abundantly clear to me who truly cared about me and who didn’t. The girls who were flaky and canceled dates at the last minute just didn’t care enough.
I was just so invested that I couldn’t help but try to convince myself that they did.
If you find yourself doubting whether she genuinely wants to meet you, then it may be time to reconsider the amount of effort you’re putting into her.
5. She makes excuses for not being available
Being stood up is one thing but if a girl constantly comes up with reasons for why she’s too busy and can’t meet you, then it may be a telltale sign she doesn’t care about you.
If you try to remain objective, you’ll be able to tell whether her reasons are legit or crappy excuses.
6. She argues and bickers with you often
Depending on the circumstances and the kind of person she is, bickering can be a sign of attraction or a lack thereof.
What I do know is that if she argues and fights with you in a manner that makes you feel as if she doesn’t care, then she probably doesn’t.
What’s particularly important to note is whether she makes an effort to win you back after an argument or if you are the one who prevents the entire relationship from falling apart.
7. She never initiates contact
One of the telltale signs you’re chasing her is if you are the one who initiates all conversations and all meetings. Women who care about you will go out of their way to talk to you.
The more they care, the more they reach out.
8. She’s insensitive and disrespectful towards you
When you care and value someone, you’ll the everything you can to avoid hurting them in a manner that goes beyond any justification.
Someone who insults you or disrespects you without remorse simply doesn’t care about you.
Irrespective of what they say, if they truly care, they wouldn’t do it or they’d do everything in their power not to.
Reasons why she doesn’t care about you
Now that you have a firm understanding of the signs she doesn’t care about you, it’s imperative that we analyze why.
By doing so, you can adjust our approach to either win her back or walk away and move on with your life.
Once you can identify the source of the problem, it can provide you with great guidance on what to do or not do next.
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1. You’re not a high priority
Anything that makes our list of top priorities is generally things and people we care about.
If this is the reason why she doesn’t care about you, it’s not the end of the world.
Perhaps it’s too early in the courtship or relationship for her to really prioritize you. With time, this could definitely change.
But, if you know her for a relatively long space of time or you started off as a high priority and that has died down, then you may need to make some serious changes.
2. She’s met someone else
This one really sucks because you can’t do much about it. Once she starts caring about that guy and if he does more things right than you do, it’s out of your control.
What you shouldn’t do is chase or try to sabotage the other guy.
Your only option is to show up, avoid making any more attraction mistakes and date other people. Either something will change between her and that guy or you meet someone else.
3. She’s a narcissist
Narcissists care about one person above everyone else and at the expense of everyone else – they care about themselves. You’ll always come second and they’ll do whatever they can to feed their narcissism.
If you’re dating a narcissist, it’s very likely that they will exhibit many of the signs we covered above.
Be careful when investing your time and love in someone whom you would classify as a narcissist.
4. You’ve hurt her too many time before
All of us have a ceiling for the amount of bullshit we are willing to put up with.
When you reach that threshold, it usually destroys all the fondness, care and love we feel.
Unfortunately, if you have done too many things to put her off or to hurt her, chances are such that she just stopped caring about you and the situation.
5. She’s moved on from you
It may be hard to accept but she may have already moved on from you.
Women are far more in tune with their feelings than most men. Because of their approach, they are better equipped to process their feelings and move on from it.
If you’ve been apart for a significant amount of time and she’s done the necessary work to get over you, then she may just have moved on.
6. She isn’t interested in you
You can look amazing, be intelligent, have great wealth and have amazing skills at dating and she may still not be interested in you.
Attraction is funny like that.
Even if you do everything well, she may not feel a connection with you. There’s only so much you can do until it’s time to call it quits with her.
7. You’ve done enough to turn her off
Those early stages of courtship are the most exciting but also the most testing phase as well.
If you didn’t behave in a manner that promotes attraction, it may have turned her off and ruined your chances of connecting with her on a deeper level.
This doesn’t mean that you can’t turn things around.
On the contrary, if there is even a sliver of interest or attraction left, you can rebuild her attraction and care for you by tweaking your approach and doing more things right.
8. You both are incompatible
This one stings because I like to think of myself as someone who has the ability to hit it off with most people.
But, unfortunately, you will run into women who look great and seem interested but once you spend any time with them, the incompatibility starts to rear its ugly head.
You can make some changes to salvage the situation but when the compatibility issues pile up, you both will eventually stop caring and lose interest altogether.
Focus on women who care
You could really avoid a lot of heart ache and wasted effort by simply readjusting your focus to women who actually care about you.
I understand that you may care and want to fight for this girl but if she doesn’t feel the same, it’s pointless.
Set a better standard for yourself and stick around people who make you feel cared for. Don’t chase the affection of a girl who doesn’t see value in you.
You deserve better.
With that being said, I hope you found this article to be insightful. Please share your experiences or problems in the comment section below.
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