This may be quite a bold and brash statement to make but when you know how to make him miss you like crazy, half the battle in romance is won.
The reason being, when a man misses you, he has developed a connection with you on a deeper and more emotional level. It means that he has thought about you, fantasized and wondered about where you are and how you feel about him.
The best way to win someone’s attention is to remove yours for a while. This will make him miss you like crazy.
At which point, it is a safe indicator that he has invested in you and the relationship shared between you two, whatever that may be.
So, with that being said, if you are uninformed on how to make him miss you like crazy, then these 10 tips are going to transform your dating life going forward.
How To To Make Him Miss You Like Crazy
1. Don’t Text Or Call Him All The Time
Feelings are developed during time spent together and time spent apart. When you interrupt this natural process by texting and calling him all the time, you drastically reduce your chances of him missing you and developing stronger feelings for you.
Use the phone to greet, set up dates and check up on each other. Don’t try to have conversations with him all the time on it.
When he has started to miss you, chances are such that he will reach out and call you.
2. Be Just A Little Hard To Get
The gifts we truly cherish in life are the ones we have worked hard for. When you serve yourself on a silver platter to him without even a bit of chasing from him, you undervalue yourself.
Someone who is of high value is hard to get. Think about this for a second – Do you ever see adverts for Lamborghini’s? No, and yet they are some of the highest-priced and loved cars in the world.
The product is of such a high value that they don’t even need to advertise and push the product down your throat.
People seek them out. Be a Lamborghini.
3. Wait For Him To Set Up The Next Date
Dating is often a waiting game. The one who usually holds out long enough is the one who eventually steers the relationship on their terms.
I’m not necessarily telling you to act shrewd and stuck up but for a while, let him set up the dates.
By doing this, he invests some effort and maintains a degree of unspoken attraction. When he sets up the next date, it would undoubtedly be due to his growing attraction and desire to see you.
4. Get Busy With Your Life
Dating is particularly difficult when your life revolves around finding a partner.
You end up putting all your eggs in one basket and creating this reality where your potential date or boyfriends is your only source of happiness and fulfillment.
This is not only unhealthy but dangerous for any relationship. You will find yourself overthinking everything in the relationship, being overly clingy and needy as well too easy.
These are usually warning signs for men and you instantly insert yourself into the category of women who, unfortunately, get blown off or ghosted which is awful and hurtful.
Focus on your goals, hobbies, career, family, fitness and friends.
Like a tripod stand, without one of the legs, the whole thing falls apart. You need to be happy in your life before thinking about being happy in a relationship.
5. By Mysterious At First
When someone appears mysterious, it creates a desire within an interested person to unravel your true identity.
As you drip the information to your new love interest, he will find himself fantasizing and wondering what you’re like.
This is further heightened during those days when you are not in communication with each other.
It’s not particularly difficult to be mysterious at first. Just focus the conversation on him by asking questions about his life, experiences and interests.
Divulge small amounts about yourself and let him wonder where you stand. Don’t spew up your feelings without building some anticipation. Let him wonder whether you are falling for him or not.
Here’s a full write up on how to be more mysterious!
6. Be Fun To Be Around
You could do everything on this list of ways to make him miss you like crazy but it will be for nothing if you are unable to be fun and have fun.
I’ve been on some dates when the woman across from me lacked a sense of humor, took herself too seriously and asked awkward and inappropriate questions too soon.
This made me feel uncomfortable and cornered. Needless to say, I didn’t have any interest to see them again.
7. Listen To Him Attentively
Some men may not say this but we really enjoy being around women who listen to us with an active interest in what we have to say.
Asking follow up questions like how he feels about a particular situation or experience he shared with you is a great way to build a connection with a man.
He may not be chatty but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t find it attractive that you care to hear from him.
Communication is the key to the longevity of attraction and love. It is two-fold in nature. Speak and listen. Both share the same level of importance.
8. Be The First To End The Conversation
As much as having a good conversation creates attraction so does ending it on a high note.
Think about this, most TV shows have one common feature, cliff hangers. By the time you’re completely invested in the episode and the thrill has built up high enough, the episode ends on a cliff hanger.
You may get temporarily frustrated but that is quickly overwhelmed by the burning desire to watch the next episode.
This applies to dating and relationships. When you end a conversation or date during a really fantastic time, though it may seem counter-intuitive to do so, your date will be dying to see you again.
9. Don’t Get Intimate With Him Too Soon
Relationships are usually built on investment. I don’t mean just monetary investment, but of time, energy, intimacy and commitment.
Women who throw themselves at a man without him having invested enough tend to undervalue their worth.
And since he barely had to work for it, do you really think he is going to appreciate you?
Chances are slim.
I’m not necessarily saying this is a rule but if you’ve found yourself experiencing what I’ve described above then you really need to consider making him wait and earn it.
At the end of the day, if he really was taken aback by you as a person, waiting until a few dates have passed or until a relationship won’t be a deal-breaker for him.
10. Give Him Space To Pursue You
We can do our best to predict and analyze different situations to come up with likely solutions but at the end of the day, you can’t 100% predict how a person will feel or when they will feel something.
Patience is your greatest virtue in dating.
If you sense that he doesn’t miss you, take a step back for a while and give him the time and space to miss you.
Slowing down isn’t a deal-breaker.
Some people take longer to develop feelings than others. You’ll know in time whether he truly misses you or not.
And if he doesn’t, you can these tips on how to make him miss you like crazy.
There is often a shift between the pursuer and the pursued in most relationships. When it shifts onto him, that’s often the time when he will start investing more into the relationship.
At that point, following the tips in this article will encourage him to not only miss you but share his feelings with you too.
What Do You Think?
Have you been able to make him miss you? If not, try out some of these tips and let me know how it works out for you.
As a man, I can vouch for these techniques working because the women who really caught my attention and got me to miss them like crazy often did all of the above.
With that being said, I hope you found this article to be helpful and informative. I wish you all the best in your love life.
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