If you know how to make a girl think about you, it will drastically improve your love life. Not only will you be more desirable but you’ll avoid rejection as well. Here’s how.
To make a girl think about you, it is important to first understand what behavior elicits thoughts in a romantic situation.
In other words, what should you do to make her think about you romantically?
Start by being more mysterious, be fun and entertaining, be spontaneous, spend time with her in person but also spend time apart, act indifferent when she tests you and focus on living your life.
These are but some of the techniques you can use to make her think about you.
Most of what we will discuss in this article can be implemented almost immediately.
The only thing I want from you is to act on these tips consistently. It’s not about hacking your way into a girl’s heart but to become a better and more attractive guy.
With that being said, let’s take a closer look at the top 10 ways on how to make a girl think about you.
1. Be mysterious
Romance brews when you find yourself imagining what the other person is thinking and doing. I’ve written about being more mysterious before and here are my top tips.
Don’t post everything you do on social media, get busy with your own goals and hobbies, avoid spewing your feelings, don’t react when being tested by her and reveal small amounts of information about yourself over time.
Because you appear mysterious, it will make her fantasize about who you really are, making her excited to discover your true self.
2. Be more fun and entertaining
Most of the time we think about times that hurt us or times that made us ridiculously happy.
By being fun and entertaining, you give her much to think about when she resume with normal life and is craving a good time.
Romance flourishes with feelings of positivity and happiness.
So, when you’re with her, be lighthearted at times, make her laugh, focus on enjoying the moment, try fun dates and avoid unnecessary fights and drama.
3. Be spontaneous
You can be spontaneous by either doing things on the fly or in the spur of the moment or when you try new things and avoid routines.
Most guys make the mistake of becoming too comfortable too soon. Rather than maintain the mystery and excitement, they opt for routines and predictable plans.
Call her at different times, take her to new places, try new things and be a challenge.
4. Spend time with her in person
Not much fun and exciting memories can be made apart from each other. The things she thinks about will be the experiences she has with you in person.
As such, it is imperative that you go out on a date or see each other atleast once a week at first.
Increase the number of times you see her as the two of you develop a deeper bond and grow more attracted to each other.
5. Spend time away from her
On the flip side, you must also spend time away from her as this will facilitate the maturation and intensification of feelings.
In order to miss someone, we must first experience a lack of their presence in our life.
If you are seeing her all the time and talking on the phone all day long, it doesn’t give her the time to think about you and miss you.
As a rule of thumb, avoid talking to her all the time.
Spend some time away from her by living your life. This will have a positive effect on her attraction causing her to desire you more.
6. Avoid texting too much
While we’re on the topic of spending time apart, you must try to avoid texting for more than a few minutes at a time.
Most guys talk a girl out of liking them by texting too much or saying silly things.
Jokes and emotional messages do not translate well over text. Save those for in-person interactions to drastically improve your chances of winning her attention and affection.
I tend to use texting as a means of setting a date.
The only exception to this rule is when you’ve been together for a long duration of time or if you’re in a long-distance relationship.
As far as possible, avoid double texting as well or follow this guide on how to double text without looking desperate.
7. Don’t reveal how you feel too soon
Uncertainty creates excitement and positive anxiety. It also creates an aura of mystery around you which will improve attraction.
Instead of unloading your feelings of attraction and love on her too quickly, wait until she shows clear signs of wanting to be with you.
You’ll know when the time is right by simply observing her behavior.
If she starts to call you more often, wants to spend more time with you, touches and caresses you, talks about the future, acts shy around you or romantic, then you can express your feelings to her.
Otherwise, wait until you see a handful of these signs to reduce the risk of getting rejected or scaring her away.
8. Compliment her the right way
Girls are constantly exposed to guys complimenting them, especially inappropriately. To separate yourself from the pack, avoid complimenting her unless you do it right.
A compliment that is genuine comes from the heart and is honest. It extends beyond physical beauty and is given without any expectation.
When your compliments are nothing more than an admiration of her, she’ll appreciate it more. Avoid silly strategies like complimenting her nails or stuff like that if you know for a fact that you’re just doing it to butter her up.
That’s disingenuous and she’ll smell your desperation from a mile away.
9. Prioritize your life
When guys have a complex personality, girls tend to love them. Why? Because it gives them things to think about and a challenge to overcome.
Believe it or not, women don’t want to be spoonfed your attention until you’re in a proper relationship with them. Even then, their attraction is maintained by being a man.
What does this entail? It simply means that you should have a life outside of her and the relationship.
A guy who pursues his dreams, sets goals, takes care of himself, spends time with family or friends and focuses on self-improvement is the ultimate catch.
10. Be indifferent and patient
There will come a time when she challenges you, throws a tantrum or pulls away from you to test you.
If you freak out, she’ll know exactly how strong or weak-minded you are. At that point, she’ll have you figured out. But, if you remain indifferent and patient, it will project strength and confidence.
Both of which are qualities women find highly sexy and hot in a man.
Not only will this improve her level of attraction but she will respect you more for it. Also, don’t chase her like a desperate guy. It’s unattractive on all levels.
If you want to give her something to think about, try being indifferent when she challenges you and watch how she comes to you.
Focus on what you can control
I’m glad that you decided to research ways on how to make a girl think about you because it means that you are willing to level up your game and improve as a person.
Most guys are too stuck in bad habits to even consider doing this. Hence, they face the same kind of rejection over and over again.
You are separating yourself from the pack and that is awesome. As much as possible, focus on having a good time and enjoying the natural progression of a relationship.
There’s nothing wrong with doing things to improve your chances of winning her over but don’t approach this in an obsessive way.
At the end of the day, the only thing you can control is yourself and the way you show up on a daily basis.
If you can exercise emotional control and focus less on how she reacts and more on how you behave, that’s when things start to work in your favor.
By being a well-rounded and compelling person, you automatically become the kind of person women like to be around. You’ll act and behave in ways that make girls think about you positively.
And that is the ultimate goal.
With that being said, I hope you enjoyed this article. Please feel free to share your experiences and tips on how to make a girl think about you in the comment section below.
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