Under normal circumstances, ignoring a girl to attract her isn’t a recommended solution. But it would be amiss not to acknowledge and share the effectiveness of this technique. This is why I decided to write an article on how to make a girl chase you by ignoring her. Here’s how.
Remove your attention and effort until she realizes a change in the relationship dynamic. Upon which, she will start to miss you and reach out. When she doesn’t hear back from you, it makes her worry that she might have lost you.
At this point, not only will she start chasing you, but her attraction level will actually increase for a period of time.
There are many reasons why ignoring a girl makes her chase you.
- Rejection often leads to a state of obsession.
- Being ignored hurts the ego.
- She will experience feelings of loss and fear that you will never come back.
- She begins to miss you.
- Damage done during the relationship or courtship disappears from the mind during time away.
As such, ignoring her can actually bring about some positive results in certain circumstances.
Normally, I don’t advocate ignoring someone on purpose. But if you’re left with no choice, then you may as well do what is known to work.
One can see why this is an effective tool for changing the power dynamic in a relationship. Look back at childhood. Parents were advised to ignore demands during a tantrum or bad behavior.
And if you were bad, then you were placed in a timeout, unable to do anything but reflect on your behavior. That’s how you teach a kid good behavior.
Essentially, it’s the same thing! The concept is exactly the same.
With that being said, let’s take a closer look at how to make a girl chase you by ignoring her and when to ignore her.
How To Ignore Her To Attract Her
First and foremost, you have to seize all communication. This may require you to not engage her in a conversation or to ignore her texts for a while.
The point of ignoring her is to get a certain message across. This means that there must be an end goal for ignoring her that stretches beyond attraction.
- Are you trying to teach her a lesson?
- Are you giving her a taste of what it feels like when she does the same?
- Are you trying to undo the damage of your mistakes?
- Are you trying to show her that you are not desperate?
- Are you waiting for an apology?
Whatever it may be, think about the objective.
Why? So that you can accurately decide and be aware of when to stop ignoring her based on what she says or does.
Sometimes, a simple apology may be all that’s needed to stop ignoring her and get back to normal.
In other cases, it’s her reaching out to you when she seemed uninterested at first.
Another thing you ought to do is identify the behavior or action she exhibits that encourages you to take this step before doing it.
Or else, you may ignore her for too long or for no reason.
In some cases, ignoring her dictates not reaching out to her until she does.
At that point, you can take her call or reply to her texts because the objective was to make her reach out to you.
But in more serious cases, you may need to take things a step further by reading her texts or seeing her calls but not responding to them.
When you do this, she’ll know that you read her text. She’s going to get upset.
This will influence her to text or call, and when she reaches out the next time to ask why you’re ignoring her, tell her the reason for it.
Now, let’s go over a list of scenarios for when to ignore her.
The Attraction Game Book – How To Get The Girl Of Your Dreams is now available. It contains every single tactic you need to level up your game. I’ll share my experiences and advice on getting your ex back, escaping the friendzone, overcoming rejection, attracting women and making them fall in love. CLICK HERE to grab your copy.
When Should You Ignore Her?
1. Ignore her when she is overly clingy and needy
Being too clingy or needy isn’t necessarily a bad thing. The intention is pure, and the motivation behind it can be endearing. But these two traits have an affinity for causing burnout in a relationship.
All of us require some time to ourselves.
During this time, we recharge and explore the parts of our individuality that are crucial for growth and development. But it also gives us time to miss our partner
We can’t do this if a needy and clingy partner refuses to dial it back when needed.
I know the last thing you’re thinking about right now is ignoring her to attract her when all you want is some space.
But the idea is to attract a particular behavior.
If she’s being clingy and needy despite all your attempts to create some balance in the relationship, ignoring her may reinforce the boundaries and attract her to act in a way that’s healthier for the both of you.
She’ll know that being clingy and needy doesn’t get your attention. So, she’ll act differently.
We can interpret this as a form of chasing you because she’s doing what you asked to get your attention back.
2. Ignore her when she’s fighting unreasonably
It’s never a good idea to reward behavior that is unwarranted and uncalled for.
This is especially true in relationships. A standard or level of respect is required for a good relationship. Without it, one or both partners may take advantage and fight unnecessarily.
Fights that turn ugly often lead to hurtful words and actions. All of which could be avoided by setting out some ground rules from the get-go.
If she is fighting with you for no reason and is crossing lines, don’t reward her. If anything, remove your attention and ignore her until she owns up to her actions.
Read this article on the signs of an unhealthy relationship.
Trust me, you want to be aware of the warning signs early on before too much damage takes place.
3. Ignore her when she talks about another man
Whether you’re together or if you’re courting each other, the last thing you want to do is entertain or react poorly to a woman bringing up another man.
Either choice places you in a bad light. You’re either encouraging her to look at you as more of a friend or to do it more to get a rise out of you.
The most ideal way to handle such a situation is with indifference. Avoid acknowledging it, change the subject, and ignore her attempts to talk about another man.
You could even go so far as to sarcastically or challengingly tell her to go after this guy.
What you don’t want to do is come across as too jealous or weak by listening to her gush about someone else.
4. Ignore her if she doesn’t make an effort to pay attention
All we get in life is what we negotiate for. If you’re not willing to negotiate better behavior out of those in your life, you’ll never have the kind of relationships your heart desires.
Part of attracting what you desire is to have standards. Standards usually indicate the qualifying or disqualifying phase.
If someone fails to meet your basic standards,they are disqualified. It’s as simple as that.
So when a woman you’ve invested your time in doesn’t meet you half way, not only does she not appreciate the time and effort you take out of your day to be with her, disqualify her of it.
In other words, ignore her if you must, but decrease or eliminate the effort you’ve put into the relationship or situation.
Only when she is willing to recognize your effort and meet you halfway, then you may return to normal. Up until then, maintain your standards and don’t entertain those who don’t care enough to pay attention.
Check out this article on how to stop being a nice guy. It’s a great read for a guy who finds himself being treated poorly.
4. Ignore her when she doesn’t seem interested
Most, if not all, guys will encounter this situation when dating and looking for a suitable partner.
You could have started out hot and heavy with a woman. As time pressed on, her interest started to flail. She is suddenly too busy to see you. And your texts go unanswered for a long time.
Rather than chase her, you should remove your presence from her life. You don’t have to make a fuss about it.
Simply stop. Ignore her.
If she reaches out with a text that is uninteresting or one-sided, ignore it.
Don’t reply back at all.
If there’s still some interest and attraction left behind, she will reach out after wondering where you disappeared.
Also, it sends an unspoken message to her that you are not desperate for her attention. If she’s not interested, then you’re going to focus your time and effort on finding someone who is.
Not only will you save face, but she will actually develop respect for you. More importantly, you’ll respect yourself for not chasing and lowering your dignity.
Take a look at this article on when to stop pursuing her.
If you don’t have strong willpower, it’s very easy to give in at the wrong time. The more you try to ignore someone and fail at it, the weaker you look.
That’s just one of the possible side effects of ignoring her to attract her. Then there’s the chance of ignoring her altogether.
You have to weigh each and every circumstance fairly and use other conflict resolution techniques or attraction techniques before resorting to this.
And when you do, be sure about it.
I just feel that the right person and the right relationship don’t have any need to ignore each other.
Be that as it may, I do hope you had an interesting time reading this article on how to make a girl chase you by ignoring her.
Head over to the comment section below and let me know what your thoughts are on ignoring a girl to attract her.