Imagine not having to walk around feeling terrible about yourself. Not having to deal with low self-esteem while being insanely attractive to yourself and to others. Imagine what you could accomplish. Which is why it’s imperative you make an effort to learn how to become the hottest version yourself.
It’s not just about how you look. On the contrary, it’s about how you feel. Becoming the hottest version of yourself starts from the inside to the outside.
The transformation you make starts with introspection which often leads to acceptance of your truest self.
Once you accept and understand yourself on a deeper level, that gives you the ability to harness your greatest gifts and talents.
That builds confidence. When you feel confident, you start to behave differently. Your behavior naturally starts to affect the way you walk, talk and dress.
By the end of this journey, everything good about yourself is maximized.
Those changes all feed each other. Like gears, they are all interlocked and constantly help each other turn in perfect synchrony.
That’s a basic explanation of how to become the hottest version of yourself. It starts with introspection.
Quiet your mind through meditation and mindfulness. This may require you to step away from the noise of society and spend some time with yourself.
To truly discover yourself, you must open yourself up and be honest. Forget about everyone else and what society thinks is good or bad for you.
Look at yourself with complete honesty and figure out what you need to improve as well as what you can maximize.
When I was 20 years old, I looked into the mirror and what I saw back was someone I didn’t recognize.
I let myself go in so many ways. I was overweight by at least 40 pounds, I was poorly groomed, my posture was terrible and I looked drained for a youthful 20-year-old.
Worse than my physical appearances was the state of my mind and heart. I was conflicted about life. I didn’t feel like I was worthy of greatness or happiness.
And that poor self-talk led me to look bad. But, I saw a hint of who I knew I was and could be.
I could picture the kind of person I was designed to become and that motivated me.
Fast forward, I lost 47 pounds in that year, I started studying to become a lawyer, I educated myself on self-development on a daily basis and changed my self-perception.
This transformed my life in ways that I cannot even begin to describe.
I’m a nobody and I was able to make such a change. Just imagine what you can achieve!
With that being said, here’s a list of the top 15 tips on how to become the hottest version of yourself.
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1. Wash and style your hair
Styling your hair can often be the one thing you need to do to complete a stylish look and tie everything together.
I would encourage you to visit a salon or barbershop regularly and invest in a shampoo that leaves your hair looking strong and shiny.
If you’re bald, embrace it completely. It can look great if you shave your head.
Get a hairstyle that suits your face shape.
If you have a very angular jaw, really long or short hair can look perfect on you. If you have a more rounded face, opt for longer hair that’s pulled back or styled upwards to add shape and angles to your face and head.
2. Clear up your skin or use makeup
I used to battle with acne in my late teens and it annoyed the hell out of me. Clearing it up really made me feel good but I also realized that regular skincare is more than enough to look good.
Even if you’re breaking out, make an effort to clean your skin. When using makeup, opt for colors and tones that match your skin tone as closely as possible.
Focus on highlighting your most attractive feature, whether this is your lips, nose, cheekbones or eyes.
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3. Dress fashionably and trendy
Keeping up to date with the latest trends can set you apart from others. For one, society seems to be convinced that the trendiest looking people are considered the hottest or most glamorous.
Updated fashion will reinvigorate the way you view yourself.
Choose colors that perfectly contrast and bring out your complexion.
I think the most important part about dressing is being comfortable with what you wear. It will show in your demeanor and how you carry off an outfit.
4. Tailor your clothes to fit your body perfectly
While we’re on the topic of clothing, it is imperative that we discuss the shape and form of your clothing.
Look at people who barely stand out or look unkempt and you’ll pick up something common between all of them – their clothes are too baggy, too long or too tight.
It’s not attractive.
Wearing clothes that are too baggy drowns you out. Clothes that are too tight are overshadowed by your body or appear too obscene.
5. Get fit by exercising
Despite the many misconceptions on the net, you don’t need six-pack abs or a perfectly curvaceous body to look hot and sexy.
On the contrary, a fit and relatively toned body is considered ideal and attractive for the majority of people.
Even though my goal was to get an athletic body, I really started looking my best as soon as I started to look fit.
My clothes looked great on me and I looked great in them.
Exercise is a natural tool for detoxification.
So, if you want to get rid of excess toxins in your body to get healthier skin, nails and hair, exercise regularly and for at least 30 minutes at a time.
The goal is to work up a great sweat.
Thereafter, shower and slap on a breathtaking cologne or scent.
6. Walk with proper posture
When you look at people who drown themselves within a crowd, they often are hunched over, staring at the ground and walking at a very fast pace.
To me, this often screams insecurity, social anxiety or lack of confidence.
And I sympathize with them.
This was me and that’s why I was able to identify how posture while walking affects your image.
Stand up straight, keep both hands by your side or in your pocket and walk with purpose.
7. Fix your body language
Let’s expand on body language because I really believe it’s an overlooked feature in physical attraction that makes a significant difference in how hot you look.
Whether you’re sitting, standing or walking, you need to proper posture and good body language.
Your body language says a lot about you as a person to other people.
The body language of a confident and energetic person is often inviting.
They stand assertively – shoulders back and chest out.
They’re always looking ahead, not down at the ground. So much so that their nose is slightly tipping upwards.
Also, they avoid folding their arms when interacting with people, specifically around people they are interested in. This makes them look afraid, closed off or defensive.
Take these tips into consideration and apply them to your life.
It may require some effort on your part with constant reminders to fix your posture. But, with time it will become natural and effortless.
8. Smile with confidence
Remember how we talked about expression influencing attraction, well smiling is the top facial expression.
Happy people are so hot, don’t you agree? Their energy is infectious and it feels good to be in their presence.
Having a smile on your face is often a sign of happiness. But, apart from that, it’s attractive. It’s vindicating and validating. It’s inviting and comforting.
Don’t be shy to show off your teeth. I want you to smile like mean it because it’s guaranteed to make you look hotter.
A quick tip: Oral health is quite important. Make sure to brush, floss and clean your teeth daily.
If you’re self-conscious about your teeth being crooked, try to get braces or just focus on making them look as clean and white as possible.
9. Sleep more to reduce fatigue and dull eyes
As we age, sleep less and take on more responsibilities, it tends to take a toll on our eyes.
This is probably why Botox has become so popular. I think that’s ridiculous because there are enough natural ways to improve the freshness of your under-eye marks and bags to look better.
Start by sleeping earlier and getting at least 6 – 8 hours of sleep. Here’s an article worth reading on how to improve your sleep.
Don’t start at screens for too many hours at a time because eye strain can affect your eye health.
Use rosewater to lighten and reduce the appearances of dark circles and eye bags. Anything cool can instantly freshen up your eyes and make you look hotter.
10. Speak clearly and eloquently
Naturally, most of us sound a specific way but we can do things to improve our ability to speak.
For instance, speaking clearly makes you sound and appear assertive and confident which we know are traits of someone who is hot.
Secondly, having mastery of the language you speak and being eloquent makes you sound intelligent, smart and composed.
Learn a new word every day and practice using it in real-life conversations.
If you speak fast like me and often sound as if you have a hot potato in your mouth, practice slowing down and properly pronouncing your words.
11. Master the art of flirting
What I’ve come to realize is that flirting isn’t actually about you, it’s about the other person.
To truly master the art of flirting, you must understand how to evoke feelings of attraction and desire within another person.
Maintaining eye contact, being suggestive, smiling seductively, biting your lip, complimenting and asking the right questions can all be used to flirt.
This, in and of itself, makes you appear so much more hotter to other people.
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12. Be intellectual
Knowledge is power. That’s what makes an intelligent man or woman seem so hot and attractive.
Educating yourself on matters of the world and essential information for living a great life or excelling at your career will have a tremendously positive effect on your level of attraction.
Start by reading more books or watching videos that are informative, insightful and enriching.
Study about philosophy and learn about life in general.
This wisdom will guide you to make decisions that benefit you and those around you.
13. Pursue your passions in life
From this entire list on how to become the hottest version of yourself, I would recommend this tip the most.
When you pursue things that you are passionate about, it logically follows that you’re going to be happy, positive, confident and invigorated.
And the more you practice things, the better you become at them. These improvements are not isolated to your passions and hobbies.
They actually start affecting your mindset and personality.
This is one of the ways in which I was able to develop confidence because I pursued things in life that meant something to me.
As I improved and achieved results, it impacted the way I felt and behaved in a general sense.
People began to notice these changes in me and that often made me exhibit the energy and behavior of someone who is very attractive.
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14. Maintain eye contact
When I was highly insecure about my skin, I could barely look people in the eyes. I was far too embarrassed and afraid to be judged.
By trying to avoid getting judged for my flaws, this behavior drew attention to my insecurities.
And because I couldn’t maintain eye contact, it was difficult for me to connect with people and express myself.
Your expressions can heavily influence your natural beauty and attractiveness.
Subduing them will detract from some of the subtle details about your face that would be considered really endearing and hot.
Practice holding eye contact for 30 seconds at a time. Then, keep increasing it by 10 seconds as you gain confidence.
15. Be confident and assertive
All throughout this article, we discussed the different practical tips on how to become the hottest version of yourself and they all can be linked to being confident and assertive.
Even in the animal kingdom, the animals who are considered the strongest all exhibit traits of confidence and assertiveness.
So on an instinctual level, we can make an argument that confidence makes you strong and powerful.
These attributes are bound to make you look, feel and act like a hot commodity.
As I said in the beginning of this article, confidence is intrinsic.
Getting compliments from other people may help to some extent but true confidence stems from within.
The complete acceptance of oneself is the first step to developing confidence.
The next step is to improve your physical attributes.
Followed by that is the investment in actions and habits that assert and prove your efficacy to be successful and capable.
Execute all three of these steps and you’ll develop mental fortitude unlike anything you’ve experienced before. You’ll exude confidence with ease.
I’d also like to point out the importance of surrounding yourself with people who bring out the best you.
Being around those who constantly berate, insult and critique you will only hinder your progress.
So, choose your friends wisely.
More than anything, develop a strong sense of trust for yourself.
When you make a promise or commitment to do something for yourself, keep it. Be a man or woman of your word.
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It may take some time and effort before you get the results you’re looking for but I promise you, these are the most effective tips on how to become the hottest version of yourself.
Put in the work on a consistent basis and learn how to be patient.
As time marches on, the small results that accumulate over time will accumulate into a significant and visible improvement that will change the way you look and feel.
That was how I transformed myself.
Granted, there are things that can be changed overnight but a lot of the significant changes to my physique and mindset took a while.
Thing is, the time will pass irrespective of whether you make an effort or not.
You can either choose to become the hottest version of yourself within the next 6 months of your life or remain exactly the same.
The choice is yours.
I think you’re capable of maximizing your good features with a bit of work.
With that being said, I hope you found this article on how to become the hottest version of yourself to be valuable and helpful. Please leave your questions or thoughts in the comment section below.
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